CODE OF CONDUCT
CONSENT
We are a Kink friendly event and we fully expect sex to happen, but as rough, debauched and deviant as you like your sex to be, consent is still key!
Active consent follows the OMFG rules:
ONGOING
As soon as they say stop, it stops!
MUTUAL
Each partner, whether it be 1 or 100 must be mutually consenting
FREELY GIVEN
Consent must be given freely and not coerced or forced, yes that includes badgering and begging
GENUINE
Consent must be genuine, if you think they may not be into it or they are not able to consent, check, check and triple check
Remember: Consent is not the absence of a no it is the presence of a genuine and enthusiastic yes!
Consent information courtesy of @activeconsent
KEEPING YOU SAFE
Having a great night and getting your rocks off is what we want to see, but please do it safely. Leave your drugs and attitude at home and here’s a few more pointers..
SAFE SEX
We provide both water-based lube and condoms which you will find in dispensers on the slings. Yes you can bring your own lube to our events
FEEL UNWELL?
We always have a Advanced First Aider at our events if you are feeling unwell or spot someone who looks unwell... TELL US.
FLOORS
Lube and mess can be cleaned up you will find blue roll, if the floor is slippery tell us and we will fix it.
If you break a glass tell the bar staff so they can clear it up.
DRINKS
Keep your drink with you. If you go outside please leave it at the bar or reception
PHONES
Official photography only please keep your phones either in the cloakroom or in your pocket if you have one!
POPPERS
Sealed bottles only please, opened ones will be not be let in.
DOOR POLICY
We have a 100% bag search policy at all events. Without being boring please do not bring anything to Alert! that could cause you or other harm.
NO
Knives, drugs, medication unless essential, booze, spliffs or stuff you wouldn't take on a plane! Please don't bring your dinner or the kitchen sink
LUBE
Yes if you want to mix up some Jlube, K lube etc this is ok. Please don't pour it everywhere - If you spill it tell us!
POPPERS
These are to be sealed new bottles only. Pre-opened bottles are a NO and if you need them you can buy them at UndergrounD shop.
KINKY STUFF
We are a sex club not an airport, masks, dildo or other kinky stuff is not going to offend us you can bring this.
Remember: WE GET VERY BUSY ONLY BRING WHAT YOU NEED TO SPEED UP BAG SEARCHES!
HELP AND SUPPORT
There’s help out there for you please find some links below
Providing free lube and condoms and a whole host of support. including affected by drugs, alcohol and chem sex.
There mission is to ensure that every LGBTQ+ young person facing homelessness or a hostile living environment has a safe place to live.
George House Trust raising awareness against stigma and supporting those living with HIV
ASK ALBERT
All of our staff know if you ask for Albert you want to go somewhere safe to talk.
